You worked hard to get here. Degrees. Promotions. Credentials. Late nights. And yet, in rooms where you are often the only Black face at the table, something shifts inside you. You find yourself wondering: Why do I feel so different than my white peers? Why do I feel drained and slightly inauthentic at work? Am I the only one who feels this way? You are not alone. And what you are experiencing may not be a personal flaw. It may be imposter phenomenon. What Is Imposter Phenome

Every February, Valentine’s Day shows up with flowers, heart-shaped boxes, and a quiet assumption that love should look a certain way. For many people, instead of warmth, it brings pressure, grief, comparison, or a sense that something is missing. If you find yourself wondering, Am I the only one who doesn’t love Valentine’s Day? , the answer is no. As a Black male therapist in NYC , I hear this question often. Valentine’s Day mental health concerns tend to surface most stron